The Beautiful Moroccan Tradition of Closing the Bones

Embracing Motherhood: A Moroccan Tradition

Birth is not just a medical event; it is a sacred rite of passage. One such integral part of this journey is the tradition known as Al-Shedd (closing of the bones). This practice highlights the profound respect and care that surrounds a mother after she brings a new life into the world. Let's delve into this meaningful experience that takes place days after childbirth.

A Warm Welcome for the New Mother

Once upon a time, in a picturesque Moroccan village, a mother welcomed her third child into her home, supported by a traditional midwife, known as a qabla. After the birth, the qabla wrapped the new mother securely in warm blankets, allowing her to embrace rest during those tender early moments. This nurturing environment is crucial, as the mother’s body needs time to heal and adjust.

The Ceremonial Closing

On the third day following childbirth, the qabla returned, bringing with her a beautiful ceremonial tray adorned with sweet tea, dates, and flickering candles. The new mother was gently laid down on a comfortable mat where she could feel grounded. The closing of the bones ceremony began with her being embraced from head to toe with a hand-made woolen wrap, enveloping her in warmth and protection.

As soothing melodies filled the room, familiar tunes that resonated with her very being, the act transformed into both a physical and spiritual closure. This intimate moment is a beautiful reminder of the deep connections between women and the generations of practices passed down through time.

In traditional Moroccan culture, new mothers are never alone; they have a network of support that celebrates the beauty of motherhood. The beautiful custom of closing the bones is not just a practice; it's an embrace of tradition, love, and the incredible journey of motherhood.

It is my hope to bring this practice to mothers in our community, enhancing their postpartum experience and providing needed support.